Blog Post Number 12
There was one activity that resonated with me the most throughout this semester. It was based upon the reading, The Silenced Dialogue: Power and Pedagogy in Educating Other People’s Children by Lisa Delpit was an eye opening experience. It was the game of cards that we played. Once I understood that each group had received different instructions it all made sense to me. It was the perfect way to illustrate a powerful concept she taught us, rules and codes of power. It was more difficult to be successful when you did not speak up or explicitly say the rules. I might have felt a little oppressed during this game; however, now I feel more connected to the possible outcomes: confidence, shame, anger, or giving up. At the activity I could not believe I was unable to pinpoint the purpose of what we were doing. Looking back at it, I was stuck in parallel universe regarding the culture of power.
A discussion point after we read Shalaby’s Troublemakers was also quite interesting. Many teachers fail to understand the difference between pushing your students and controlling them. Although some teachers have “good intentions” behind getting their students to comply, it may end up hurting them in the end. During my service learning and schooling experience I have seen educators treat their students like “subordinate creatures.” This can contribute to canary metaphor, specifically the toxic air that Shalaby taught us. As future educators, we need to understand: even though students are younger and can learn from us we NEED to treat them as with human rights. It sounds ridiculous to write this, but it is a real problem! It is only when we treat our students as an equal and give them the freedom they deserve, where they can fly their highest.
A quote from Queering our Schools touched my heart: “if he had seen Sasha’s skirt as an expression of another kid’s unique beautiful self… I would not be writing this now.” This quote speaks to me because I believe you should always try to see the beauty in self expression. Instead of critiquing differences, we can be empowered by their confidence to showcase their true selves. Before I wanted to become a teacher, I thought it would be beneficial to teach a small lesson on love and kindness early on. When children learn in a positive environment they can learn to model kindness. After all, when we behaviorally learn as children, it can influence how we perform for the rest of our lives.
Chat gpt generated image: “could you generate an image of a classroom of students hands on learning kindness based on what I wrote [insert text].” Then, “how about the teacher learning a lesson on specific examples of how to spread love to her students.”
